10 Obvious signs of a girlfriend cheating with steps to take

How can you tell if your partner has cheated?

signs of a girlfriend cheating
Signs of a Girlfriend Cheating

In our contemporary world today, it’s very much easier to cheat, and it’s also easier to get caught. One of the most important things in every relationship is to know the signs of a girlfriend cheating.

However, knowing the signs of a girlfriend cheating can take a bit of detective like skills, especially if you want to and should take the high moral road and avoid invading her privacy. One of the only things worse than being cheated on is not knowing if it’s happening or not.

Here are some of the signs, behaviors and characters you’ll want to know of a girlfriend cheating in a relationship.

How can you tell if your partner has cheated?

You can tell if your partner has cheated if she exhibit these listed things;

  1. If she’s constantly texting a new strange friend
  2. If she can’t maintain eye contact with you anymore
  3. If she start avoiding you
  4. Doesn’t have more time for you again

How do you tell if your girlfriend is lying about cheating on you?

Your girlfriend is lying about cheating if she;

  • Her body language suddenly changes when you ask her about cheating.
  • She starts being nervous, fidgeting, or pulling away.
    Her sentence structure changes to longer, more confusing sentences.
  • Her eye contact breaks.

10 Obvious signs of a girlfriend cheating

1. She start chatting a bit more and long with strangers

This is one of the most serious and obvious sign that a girlfriend is cheating. Early in the relationship, you were her chatting partner that made her more attach to her phone.

Chatting with Strangers -Obvious signs of a girlfriend cheating

All of a sudden, you find out that your partner seems to be on their phone a lot lately and, often with strangers which she may be so discreet about. This is a red flag which is a clear sign that she is cheating

2. She’s busy and start hiding her whereabout

If she has got a full plate and no room for you to spend any time together. She used to have all the time in the world for you but now, her schedule is tight and packed up completely.

The moment your girlfriend becomes secretive in her schedules, it clearly a sign that there is something she is hiding.

she is frequently distracted

she is frequently distracted

Your unannounced visit no longer seem pleasant to your girlfriend. She rushes you out and often postpones your spontaneous gestures.

She used to be so zealous going out for picnic, trying new restaurants, and even staying around you for a moment, but now, she sees those activities as not worth her time, she may even be too busy to talk to you properly and blames it all on work. This gives the sign that she is cheating.

3. When she start keeping secret

Relationship is true when partners are open to each other. You know your girlfriend is cheating when she start keeping secret.

keeping secrets

This is seen when she suddenly change conversation when serious topic is raised. This is very suspicious as it is, one of the obvious signs of a girlfriend cheating on you.


4. She keeps her phone on high security and pays more attention to it

Cheaters tend to use their phones and computers more frequently than before and to guard them as if their lives really depend on it. It’s a sign of a girlfriend cheating

Take note of how she acts when she’s on her phone right next to you, or when you walk into the room while she’s on her PC.

She’s always doubtful you’re looking at her phone. She’s started to look over her shoulder to see if you’re reading her texts or coming close at all.


Now, she has every right to want to keep her phone to herself, but if she’s suddenly keeping it with her on full time, just to be sure you aren’t looking at it, that is an enormous clue that she’s hiding something big in her cupboard, which shouldn’t be a surprise to you any longer.


5. Looking for reasons to complain and quarrel

This is another sign of a girlfriend cheating. The complaints can come in many different forms, but it all boil down to one thing, which is telling you that she isn’t happy.

She gets angry at you for even minor inconveniences. The relationship isn’t satisfying her the way it used to.

Back then, she told you, she could excuse your faults. Now, they all stand out boldly as mountain before her. And if that’s the case, cheating is at the door of the relationship.

Obvious signs of a girlfriend cheating
Obvious signs of a Girlfriend Cheating


6. If she is frequently distracted

The problem may not show up in a busy schedule, she may just make it clear she wishes she were somewhere else. When she’s with you, these days, she may be frequently seemed distracted. Even if she’s technically sitting beside you, her mind is somewhere else, or with someone else.

complain and quarrel
complains and quarrels

Here, your problems and complain are no longer of any interest to her. Whatever is the case, she just doesn’t have much time or patience to be anxious about.

If she’s no longer emotionally concentrated to you that means she may be making herself available for someone else instead, and it also a sign that she’s cheating.


7. When she can no longer trust you

Over the years, research has shown that a girl who cannot trust her boyfriend cannot also be trusted. It is only a cheater  that can accuse someone else of cheating.

Jealousy can show up in many ways. She may start harassing you about every girl on the block,  female friends or coworkers.

On the other hand, she may get playful and try to make fun of you into admitting you have someone else attractive.

No matter how it unfolds, jealousy is a very common sign of a girlfriend cheating and trying to relieve her own guilty conscience.


8. When she develop lack of seriousness

For you to really understand this sign you need to compare her concentration with her loving past attitude with you. The lack of seriousness in her intentions can be seen in more than just her conversation

However, when your girlfriend suddenly loses interest in those things she used to want and crave for; she’s not even interested in discussing them, she’s definitely lost some interest in your relationship, and may have developed an interest in a different one.


9. When it is so hard to say ‘I love you’

Earlier in the relationship, your girlfriend might have had no issues in expressing her love and telling you ‘I love you’ at least 7 times a day. But if she starts having a little difficulty in saying it.

i love you no more
I Love You, no more

Somehow, she may try to avoid saying thees words by changing topics or just ignoring your effort of trying to impress her. Otherwise, she may just mumble the three syllables to get it over with without really saying it from the heart.

If there’s no enthusiasm behind the most essential phrase in your relationship, there’s a problem or cheating at the corner.


10. She’s not interested in sex with you again

Turning her on for an amazing sex was the easiest key you had to make her happy. But lately, you feel like it’s getting more difficult to get her interested in sex. This can be a sign of unfaithfulness.

We know relationships have their ups and downs, but if you feel like she is pulling away from you and not wanting to be intimate; if she used to kiss you all the time and suddenly that behavior disappears there’s a reason.

Signs of a Girlfriend Cheating

Decreased levels of sexual activity in your relationship can be a sign of a girlfriend cheating. Less sex occurs because your partner is focused on someone else.


Here are other tips that would help you in discovering infidelity in a relationship.

What are the first signs of cheating?

The first signs of cheating is:

  • They’re rapidly difficult to get to
  • Their phone habits changes
  • They have a decrease—or increase—in libido.
  • Their friends don’t seem as friendly as they used to be.

How do you know if your girlfriend is seeing someone else?

You know your girlfriend is probably seeing someone else behind your back if:

  • She becomes so cold and ruthless lately.
  • Her attitude start changing towards you.
  • You have caught her lying about who she’s with and where she is.
  • She pays more attention to her appearance than in your relationship with her.

Signs of a cheating girlfriend in long distance

Your girlfriend in a long distance is cheating if you notice;

  • There is a sudden and continual changes in her behavior or communication pattern.
  • She seems to be perpetually busy.
  • She is often difficult to get to.
  • She is often unavailable to take your call at the moment you call.

Characteristics of a cheating woman

No doubt a cheating woman will display these characteristic;

  • They would often break relationship rules.
  • They’re unsatisfied, greedy and hungry in the relationship.
  • They always dress to catch others attention.
  • They loose courage and hope in their current relationship.

How to hurt a cheating girlfriend

You can hurt a cheating girlfriend by trying this following things;

  • Re-attract and also entice her so she would wants to sleep with you again.
  • Start making her jealous by flirting with a more beautiful and attractive girl than her.
  • Move on, and start posting photos of you having fun with beautiful girls on social media.
  • Ignore her and move on
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Written by Ekemini Johnson

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